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ElizabethF wrote:

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Reva would have to be insane to leave the sexy, strong, supportive, fun, loving, accepting relationship she has with Jeffrey to go back to judgment and blame and ridicule and condescention with Josh.

It does seem that Josh is judging her a lot. And telling her what to do. She is an adult and not under his care. I thought he was stepping over a line when he was lecturing her today. But she was just amused by that. LOL.

Oh, I know, Elizabeth, that was just ridiculous how Josh turned, returning her dropped cellphone, into a lecture on what a mess she is. I mean, Geez, she misplaced her cellphone, not a baby...... Why he felt the need to turn that into a whole criticizing lecture on her, is beyond me. This was pure Josh and to me, Reva did look a little uncomfortable with his complete tear down of her, but then just tried to cover and see that he did it out of caring. Seems Josh can't care, without nitpicking at her and condescending to her. This is the problem between them, Josh always needs to feel superior to her. He treated her like a total ditzy flake, for a simple human mistake. This is just one reason why I can't even fathom watching another Josh and Reva redux. She is in such a better place now with Jeffrey that accepts her for who she is, and doesn't feel the need to lecture her, or scold her or dismantle her whole personality. I think they made the differences between Josh and Jeffrey yesterday, and how they both relate to and "care" about Reva, glaringly obvious and IMO, it was obvious who the better man for her is.